We’re a homeschooling family with two daughters: 15 and 10. The 15-year old is doing mostly 9th grade work; the 10-year old, 5th grade. We’ve been schooling them for their whole career and plan to continue through high school. I am a product of public education and that method of teaching is the only method I know. So going against that grain and realizing we’re going to be ok is sometimes tough. I constantly attempt to embrace our hectic, busy, on-the-road lifestyle and tailor our homeschool to fit that. I still rely far too heavily on workbooks. Trying to change that!
The best thing to do, no matter what style or method of homeschooling you choose is to teach the way your child learns (a good book for this is In Their Own Way by Thomas Armstrong, Ph.D.). I work well getting things done quickly and moving on. My thought is that if I get it done I can move on to things I’d rather be doing. That’s not the philosophy nor the attitude I should be bringing to the table everyday. Is it a wonder why the girls aren’t enjoying school as much as they could?
The girls like to play and experience things, like most kids, I’m sure. The worksheet, “get it done” method just doesn’t give them the love of learning that I should be fostering in them right now. Teaching The Trivium by the Bluedorns has several good points, especially for our younger daughter. I’m being reminded that education for someone as young as seven should be fun while still meaningful. Is it necessary for her to do twelve addition problems, twelve subtraction problems and other sundry math problems each day? Is it necessary for her to be learning what the difference is between igneous and sedimentary rocks when she’s just going to forget that and have to relearn it in a couple of years?
NO! I’m continually reminding myself that our homeschooling needs to be more about experiencing while learning. Whatever they don’t learn in textbook form right now they’ll pick up quickly when they’re older because their brains will be ready for it in textbook form then (this is a Bluedorn belief and I think they’re right).
Writing these things is helping me to actually believe more firmly what I’ve been trying to tell myself. It’s ok to break away from the public school way of doing things! If you’re a homeschooler did you have trouble convincing yourself of that? It’s taken me years…and I’m still learning!
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CURRICULUM and EXTRAS!!
If you have a question about any of the curricula we’ve used just ask!
Curricula I’ve used:
I’m a curriculum junkie and it’s hard for me to stick with one thing…because the next best thing could be one mouse click away. Cost holds me back somewhat. I do experiment from year to year. We have used
- Easy Grammar/Daily Grams (LOVE THIS)
- Tapestry of Grace (LOVE THIS)
- All About Spelling (LOVE THIS)
- Apologia (LOVE THIS)
- WriteShop (LOVE THIS)
- Abeka,
- Saxon Math,
- Letter of the Week,
- Little Hands to Heaven,
- Alpha Omega (AOP) LifePacs,
- AOP Horizons,
- Singapore Math,
- Explode the Code,
- Power-Glide,
- Le Français Facile
- Memoria Press (for Latin, Bible and French)
- Life of Fred (Math)
- Khan Academy (Math)
- …I’m sure I’m missing something…
Here’s what we’re using for the 2015/2016 school year:
- Bible: Apologia’s Who Am I, Volume 2: Who Am I (and What Am I Doing Here)?
- History/Literature/Art/Geography/Church History: Tapestry of Grace, Year 4
- Math: Abeka, Life of Fred, and Khan Academy
- Writing: WriteShop Junior (4th grader) and WriteShop (8th grader)
- Science: Apologia’s Botany (4th grader) and General Science (8th grader)
- Spanish: Abeka’s Por Todo el Mundo. It’s high school level so I’m not going to require as much from our 4th grader
- Spelling: All About Spelling, Level 5 (4th grader) and when we finish that we’ll move on to Abeka’s 4th grade Spelling and vocab curriculum. For our 8th grader I found a 9th grade spelling list online. For the 8th grade vocab I found a site to study SAT vocab words.
- Grammar: Easy Grammar/Daily Grams (4th grade) and Daily Grams (9th grade level)
- Reading Comprehension: Sylvan’s 4th Grade Reading Comprehension
- Typing: Mavis Beacon
- Guitar: Lessons with Daddy
- Tennis: Lessons with Daddy
Here’s what we used for the 2014/2015 school year:
- Bible: AWANA and Apologia’s Who Am I, Volume 1: Who is God (and Can I Really Know Him)?
- History/Literature/Geography/Church History/Art: Tapestry of Grace, Year 3
- Math: Abeka and Life of Fred
- Writing: WriteShop Junior (3rd grader) and WriteShop (7th grader)
- Science: Apologia’s Zoology 2: Swimming Creatures
- Spanish: Just reviewing flash cards
- Spelling: All About Spelling, review of Levels 1-5 (3rd grader) and Abeka 8th grade Spelling and vocab.
- Grammar: Easy Grammar/Daily Grams (3rd grade) and Daily Grams (8th grade level)
- Cursive: Memoria’s Press’ New American Cursive
Here’s what we used for the 2013/2014 school year:
- Bible: AWANA
- History/Literature/Writing/Art: Tapestry of Grace, Year 2
- Math: Abeka
- Science: Apologia’s Zoology 1 for the 6th grader and Alpha Omega’s LifePacs for our 2nd grader. (I stopped after book 4 or 5. It’s such basic information that she’ll learn through living everyday life. She’s going to take part in the Zoology experiments.)
- French: Taking part in a local co-op
- Art: Taking part in a local co-op
- Spelling: All About Spelling
- Grammar: Easy Grammar/Daily Grams (7th grade) and Alpha Omega Horizons (2nd grade)
- Cursive: I had started using a program with our 2nd grader, got through half of it, and realized she needs to mature a bit before tackling that.
(We did school for the 2011/2012 and 2012/2013 years,
but I wasn’t blogging much and I don’t have that recorded here.)
Here’s what we used for the 2010-2011 school year:
- Bible: Memoria Press and AWANA
- History/Literature/Writing/Art: Tapestry of Grace Year 4
- Math: Abeka
- Science: Botany from Apologia Science
- French: Memoria Press (we are working very slowly through this book)
- Latin: Memoria Press’ Latina Christiana
- Art: Art for Kids: Drawing
- Guitar: She is practicing with her daddy
- Spelling/Reading Comprehension: All About Spelling and Spectrum Reading (Grade 4)
Here’s what we used the 2009-2010 school year:
- Bible: Memoria Press and AWANA
- Math: Abeka
- Spelling: All About Spelling
- French: Memoria Press (we worked very slowly through this book and didn’t finish)
- P.E.: Dance class, PE class, playing
- History/Writing/Grammar: Tapestry of Grace Year 3
- Latin: Memoria Press’ Prima Latina
Here’s what we used the 2008-2009 school year:
- Bible: AOP Switched on Schoolhouse (SOS), TOGand AWANA
- Science: AOP SOS
- Math: AOP Horizons
- Spelling/Phonics: All About Spelling (I’m very excited to try this program as it combines spelling and phonics, when they really should never be separated in the first place).
- French: We basically worked through flashcards of nouns and verbs. I used the flashcards from Power-Glide.
- Logic: Critical Thinking‘s Mind Bendersand Building Thinking Skills
- P.E.: Dance class, gymnastics class and playing
- History/Writing/Grammar: Tapestry of Grace Year 2.
- I was going to start Reagan on Latin, but this year is going to be pretty chaotic with our moving situation. Latin can wait. There are still many things to research, like which pronunciation to use!
Here’s what we used the 2007-2008 school year:
- Bible: A mix of AWANA verses, a book from our church to learn about baptism and Tapestry of Grace
- Science: AOP LifePacs (link goes directly to Science section)
- Penmanship: AOP Horizons
- Phonics: AOP Horizons
- Math: AOP Horizons
- Spelling: AOP Horizons
- French: We began with Power-Glide and transitioned to Le Français Facile. I do lots of flash card work with Reagan.
- P.E.: Dance classes and whatever playing she does each day.
- Tapestry of Grace (TOG) Year 1: Very comprehensive! It covers Bible, history, literature, art history, writing, pretty much anything you can think of. In the older levels (dialectic and rhetoric) it will cover government, philosophy, etc. I can’t recommend this program highly enough. If I could only teach from one thing it would be TOG and we’d wing the rest.
SOME OF THE EXTRAS WE USE/HAVE USED
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Donna Young‘s organizational tools. It’s FREE!
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Homeschool Tracker (to replace my Microsoft Office One Note addiction). I use the FREE version!
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HSLDA (Home School Legal Defense Association)
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Trivium Pursuit: A great site to understand and learn about Christian classical education.
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Teaching The Trivium: Christian Homeschooling in a Classical Styleby Harvey & Laurie Bluedorn. This is the book that can be found at the site above.
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Cathy Duffy Reviews: A wonderful resource for comparing 100s of various curricula.
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Homeschool Buyers Co-op: An awesome way to save big bucks on curriculum. And it’s FREE to join! If you want to join let me know. I’ll send you a referral email where I’ll get 20 “SmartPoints” for you joining. SmartPoints help you buy curriculum. For more info on the Co-op read below.
The Homeschool Buyer Co-op is a free homeschooling organization for both new and veteran homeschoolers. Co-op membership is free and confidential, and entitles homeschooling families to discounts from over a hundred educational suppliers. They also sponsor “Group Buys” for curriculum packages that save homerschooling families lots of money. On the site you’ll find lots of free information, such as databases of free curriculum, field trips, and educational contests and scholarships.
I linked to your site from Serenity’s site, and am really enjoying it! Thank you for your great advice on homeschooling, and your energy and love for sewing! I will be homeschooling for the first time next year, my 10 year old son, and am learning the ropes. Also, I love to sew, but am way too busy. Maybe that should change!
I would LOVE to get the referral e-mail with SmartPoints.
I’m very interested in the AOP curriculum, especially Bible and science. Thanks, Vicki!!
Kari 🙂
My daughter intends to homeschool using the classical method. Have you read “The well-trained mind” by Jesse Wise and Susan Wise Bauer, a mother/daughter team? Very comprehensive how-to on using the trivium. A lot of emphasis on the “how” along with scheduling and book lists.
I’m a huge fan of homeschool families.
I love that you homeschool… I am planning on homeschooling as well!
Remind me who it is that designed your blog…. I can’t remember!
Hi – Just left a comment about being “Vicki” and then noticed that you are a homeschool family -CONGRATULATIONS!! I always said I would never homeschool but then went on to do just that for the next 22 years ! My youngest is a sophomore so I only have two years to go before I retire – I have been very blessed to have had such wonderful memories of teaching my children (now age 30, 25 and 16) and wouldn’t have had it any other way !!
I googled Vicki needs and it lead me to your sight. I see we have many things in common
1. we are both named vicki
2. I thought the needs things were lame too.
3. I homeschooled and worried about it sometimes. I’m here to tell you it works and I’l highly recommend it to anyone who’s thinking about it.
DD 1 is about to graduate from college and with honors, and DD2 is a freshman in college
4. They both went all the way through awana and also danced which we counted as p.e. class
check out my blog for a picture
ps you were like me picking curriculum and our type are called eclectic…..
I am so glad I found your site! I have been homeschooling for 5 weeks and am glad to connect with other homeschooling families
Thanks for your example!
Be blessed!
Sarah aka @MissVibrant on Twitter
A great write up on curriculum’s… here is another couple you could try, they are not so much curriculum, they are more like homeschooling perspectives mixed with curriculum.
– The Unschooling Handbook : How to Use the Whole World As Your Child’s Classroom
Mary Griffith
– Christian Unschooling : Growing Your Children in the Freedom of Christ
Teri J. Brown
– Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling
John Taylor Gatto (a must read for any homeschooler I reckon)
All the best in your HSing endeavours
A (homeschooling) Mummy
I am strongly considering homeschooling my two girls (only ages 3 and 1, but never to early to start planning!). I do have fears; mainly that they will miss out on the fun things I remember about going to public school. Also I will be giving up a high-paying job (as soon as DH finds a job) to stay home with them. I worry that my money (and thus the things i can buy for them and where we could live) is better for them than my constant presence. This is something I am praying about. I despartely want them to grow up loving our Lord and serving Him, and I guess that starts with my example. Seeing your blog and the commenters posts helps reassure me that homeschooling will be a good decision.
Sorry it has taken a couple days to respond! Homeschooling is definitely something to pray about. If you feel God calling you to do it then it’s just a matter of obedience. God will provide what your children and your family needs. It is hard sometimes to think about the things that we “could” be doing or the children “could” have if there were two incomes. BUT, there are so many blessings seen each day, even in the little things, it becomes easier to realize kids don’t necessarily need all the extras we can give them in today’s culture. Your presence, and love and even discipline is something that they will grow up appreciating, even if they can’t verbally express that 🙂
Do research in this time period when you don’t have to make a quick decision. There are hundreds of curricula to use and even different theories and methods of teaching at home. If you choose to homeschool you’ll find something that fits for your family and fits your budget. Let me know if you have any more questions!
Vicki
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